Category Archives: your man
when is it okay to initiate
I received a letter from a very sweet yet confused woman -I will call her Violet – who is feeling stress within herself and in her relationship around initiating. When is it okay to initiate? When is it not? Violet … Continue reading
Posted in communication, feelings, healing, relationships, your man
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creating deep connection
You might think it’s simple, easy, obvious recognizing at least an initial connection with another person whether it’s a potential friend or whether it’s a someone who seems to be a potential your “the one”. And in some ways it … Continue reading
Posted in fear, feelings, healing, love, relationships, the one, your man
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when is it too much giving
When the masculine/feminine energy dynamic is brought back to its basic elements, feminine energy is about BEING, masculine energy is about DOING. Feminine energy is about RECEIVING, masculine energy is about GIVING. Feminine energy is about FEELING, masculine energy is … Continue reading
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blaming and criticizing your man
I read recently that BLAME and CRITICISM are the two primary relationship killers. And though I agree that these elements would not be healthy in a relationship when doled out on a regular basis, or at all for that matter, … Continue reading
Posted in healing, relationships, the one, your man
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when your man REALLY steps up
I’ve been so very sick, so sick like I can’t remember being so sick in a very long time, four days of over 102 temperature with a wracking cough, terrible pain in the back of my head, chills, only to … Continue reading
Posted in love, relationships, the one, trust, your man
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is it really about healing from addiction?
I received a letter from a reader who I will call Olivia. She has been feeling really concerned, certainly feeling fear, panic even around her man because of the way he has been approaching and dealing with his problems from … Continue reading
Posted in communication, fear, feelings, healing, relationships, your man
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words vs actions
Well of course actions speak louder than words, YET even when we know this, STILL it can be SO easy to get all caught up in pretty rhetoric. We women just SO love the beautiful words, the compliments, phrases of … Continue reading
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your man, sex, and YOU
There is a beautiful goddess woman (I will name her Angelika) with whom I have been having some in depth conversations about her life with her man AND what I think is the most important thing here, how she is … Continue reading
Posted in healing, insecure, men and women, relationships, sex, trust, your man
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he finishes too soon – what do you do
I received a distress message from a beautiful and delightful goddess woman. I will call her Alouette. She is feeling at a loss and even a bit angry because the new man in her life “finishes” very quickly, i.e. he … Continue reading
Posted in adventures, communication, feelings, intimacy, sex, your man
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she wants her man to be the man SHE wants
I received a letter awhile back from a woman (I will call her Lily) asking for my help. She was feeling distressed, tied all up in knots. She had broken things off with her man of six years after becoming … Continue reading
Posted in healing, relationships, your man
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