Category Archives: insecure
are you attracting emotionally unavailable men?
Has this been a pattern for you? In other words do you find this happening repeatedly in your life with your relationships? Just when you think you’ve found your “the one” or … Continue reading
love and fear
There is a myriad of emotions we feel, often hundreds a day, yet all of these varied feelings be they good feeling feelings or not so good feeling feelings can be brought down to one of two. And these are … Continue reading
your man, sex, and YOU
There is a beautiful goddess woman (I will name her Angelika) with whom I have been having some in depth conversations about her life with her man AND what I think is the most important thing here, how she is … Continue reading
how much can you expect from your man when he’s hurting
How much CAN you expect from your man when he’s hurting, upset, or stressed? In my experience, not much if any. You know how men really cannot multi-task? Well it applies here too. And probably more so. Women can put … Continue reading
snooping on your man
Have you ever found yourself doing this? Or at least feeling tempted? Checking or wanting to check his phone? His e-mail? His Facebook status? And whether you uncover something or not, don’t you like so many of us women, create … Continue reading
walking on eggshells with him?
Do you ever feel like you’re always or at least too much of the time scared to voice much of anything to your man? For example when you start to feel tense for whatever reason, justified or not. Do you … Continue reading
hot women are everywhere…does this stress you out?
Do other women bother you, make you feel squirmy, bad, insecure, the beautiful ones, the sexy ones, the younger ones, the ones you think have so much more going for them than you? I have worked with so many women … Continue reading
what is commitment
I’ve spoken about commitment before, yet this subject comes up over and over again which is why I want to look at this in another way. I want you to ask yourself whether you really know, FOR YOU, what this … Continue reading
your gremlin voices?
The issue of you being harder on yourself than likely anyone else would, the seemingly incessant noise of the gremlin voices has been coming up a lot lately, and by chance, or not, I came upon this poem recently. I … Continue reading
loving him for who he is
Do you ever feel sometimes that what he does when he does it isn’t right, isn’t enough? It wasn’t done the way you would do it. He gave you something totally not you at all. He just didn’t give you … Continue reading

