Category Archives: healing
is it really about healing from addiction?
I received a letter from a reader who I will call Olivia. She has been feeling really concerned, certainly feeling fear, panic even around her man because of the way he has been approaching and dealing with his problems from … Continue reading
Posted in communication, fear, feelings, healing, relationships, your man
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even more on expectations
One of the most important lessons I teach, one which is one of the cornerstones to my work is letting go of expectations, and I’ve written about this at length. Expectations are big and looming, overwhelming, and they feel ugly … Continue reading
Posted in fear, healing, relationships
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your man, sex, and YOU
There is a beautiful goddess woman (I will name her Angelika) with whom I have been having some in depth conversations about her life with her man AND what I think is the most important thing here, how she is … Continue reading
Posted in healing, insecure, men and women, relationships, sex, trust, your man
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what you focus on grows
When you meet a man for the first time or whether you’ve been with him forever, I’m asking you to CHOOSE to focus on all that you recognize which is GREAT and WONDERFUL about him. I’m asking you to push … Continue reading
Posted in healing, law of attraction, relationships
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she wants her man to be the man SHE wants
I received a letter awhile back from a woman (I will call her Lily) asking for my help. She was feeling distressed, tied all up in knots. She had broken things off with her man of six years after becoming … Continue reading
Posted in healing, relationships, your man
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practicing openness
There is a trap some of us get caught in which SO doesn’t serve us or help us in any way. Actually it can very much get in your way, closing you off to possibility, keeping you from having what … Continue reading
Posted in fear, feelings, healing, law of attraction, relationships, your man
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healing hurts
Exploring yourself, challenging your thoughts, habits, and patterns borne from a past which by the way is nothing like your present, can feel daunting, terrifying. Many don’t want to go here. The thought of taking on SO much work and … Continue reading
Posted in feelings, healing, trust
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chemistry vs intimacy
When you feel immersed in those early, yummy feeling, luscious, juicy, blood stirring, heart beating pitter patter, exciting, and sometimes scary, sometimes painful, sometimes totally amazing stages of a budding romance with a man, especially if it’s an instant or … Continue reading
Posted in beautiful, healing, intimacy, relationships, the one, your man
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desires
You have heard me speak quite a bit about not having expectations. The more open and curious and free flowing you can be in your life and with your man, the more delighted you will feel, the more surprises will … Continue reading
Posted in healing, law of attraction, relationships
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apologies
Have you ever found yourself feeling quizzical, irritated, or hurt, angry even about something your man said or did, something for which he hasn’t apologized? Of course you have. And when something like this happens, and the apology still doesn’t … Continue reading
Posted in communication, healing, men and women, relationships, your man
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