Category Archives: healing
are you attracting emotionally unavailable men?
Has this been a pattern for you? In other words do you find this happening repeatedly in your life with your relationships? Just when you think you’ve found your “the one” or … Continue reading
Posted in fear, healing, insecure, intimacy, love, relationships, the one
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when is it okay to initiate
I received a letter from a very sweet yet confused woman -I will call her Violet – who is feeling stress within herself and in her relationship around initiating. When is it okay to initiate? When is it not? Violet … Continue reading
Posted in communication, feelings, healing, relationships, your man
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creating deep connection
You might think it’s simple, easy, obvious recognizing at least an initial connection with another person whether it’s a potential friend or whether it’s a someone who seems to be a potential your “the one”. And in some ways it … Continue reading
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love and fear
There is a myriad of emotions we feel, often hundreds a day, yet all of these varied feelings be they good feeling feelings or not so good feeling feelings can be brought down to one of two. And these are … Continue reading
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phases of relationship
I’m here to break to you the what may seem like sad, heart breaking, devastating news. Relationships are not consistently the same for now and ever more, looping your special love song now and forever, for all eternity. Relationships WILL … Continue reading
Posted in beautiful, feelings, healing, intimacy, love, relationships, sex
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finding YOUR love by changing patterns
It can be SO easy for many if not most women to become all hung up on one man. EVEN when it’s clear to most everyone around her that this is SO not the man for her, that he may … Continue reading
Posted in fear, healing, love, relationships
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blaming and criticizing your man
I read recently that BLAME and CRITICISM are the two primary relationship killers. And though I agree that these elements would not be healthy in a relationship when doled out on a regular basis, or at all for that matter, … Continue reading
Posted in healing, relationships, the one, your man
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is it really about healing from addiction?
I received a letter from a reader who I will call Olivia. She has been feeling really concerned, certainly feeling fear, panic even around her man because of the way he has been approaching and dealing with his problems from … Continue reading
Posted in communication, fear, feelings, healing, relationships, your man
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even more on expectations
One of the most important lessons I teach, one which is one of the cornerstones to my work is letting go of expectations, and I’ve written about this at length. Expectations are big and looming, overwhelming, and they feel ugly … Continue reading
Posted in fear, healing, relationships
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your man, sex, and YOU
There is a beautiful goddess woman (I will name her Angelika) with whom I have been having some in depth conversations about her life with her man AND what I think is the most important thing here, how she is … Continue reading
Posted in healing, insecure, men and women, relationships, sex, trust, your man
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